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A LESSON ON HOW TO BE HOSPITABLE TO OTHERS
BY BILL EASUM
In June I attended a workshop on "Managing Creativity" sponsored by
Leadership Network and the Disney Institute in Orlando. Although I didn't get to
see much of Disney during the day and half I attended the workshop, I was
introduced to enough of it to have some interesting thoughts. Here are some of
them.
After less than two hours at Disney I thought "Wouldn't it be exciting if
our churches cared enough about welcoming strangers as does Disney?" Every
Disney employee I met welcomed me as if they really were glad to see me. Of
course I knew why they were glad to see me....I was paying their salary. Perhaps
it is time to regularly train our staffs and the leaders of congregations to
welcome the stranger.
After a few hours, it was apparent that everyone who works at Disney knows the
Disney story... how it got started, what Walt dreamed of creating, and what role
they play in creating the Disney drama each day. Every person understood that
they were a cast member of a giant play. What would change in your church if
every leader understood that they were a cast member in the great drama of
divine intervention into this world?
It was also soon apparent that Disney had a code of conduct such as not smoking
or chewing gum on the premises, saying "Good Morning," "Good
Evening," "Good Afternoon" instead of "Hello," or upon
seeing someone taking a picture of their family asking if they could take it for
them so the family member could be in the picture. Simple things, but things
that showed the people of Disney were prepared to make anyone's trip to Disney
an experience they would not forget. What if our church leaders were prepared to
make Sunday morning an unforgettable experience?
It also occurred to me that the code of conduct gave Disney the appearance of
direction. Church Mission Statements are comparable to the Disney code of
conduct. They help guests understand what your church is all about and where it
is going, not to mention they give direction to how your church makes decisions.
Consider how it would change the stranger's view of your church if every person
they asked, "What is this church all about?" was able to give them the
same response?
I experienced the power of direction while visiting Trinity Church in Chicago
(pastor Jeremiah Wright). Every person I asked to describe the mission of
church, including a six-year-old, gave me the same answer: "We are
unashamed black and unapologetically Christian." Anyone who visits that
church has no trouble discovering its mission.
Disney also confirmed the ancient/future thing that many of us futurists talk
about. The old and the future exist side by side at Disney, from pavilions to
visit to old bricks running into new forms of pavement. It's not unusual to see
postmodern churches that are experimenting with blending the old and the new. I
don't mean that they throw a few praise choruses in with the hymns. Far more
than that. I mean candles, creeds, art, stained glass, video clips, projection
systems, surround sound, hymns, Pearl Jam, Gregorian chant, etc. all mixed
throughout a service.
The Disney presenters referred to the importance of leaders letting the
"inner child" out. In the context of "Managing Creativity"
that means that creativity is often a product of getting in touch with the child
within us and exploring the meaning of things around us. What if your leaders
constantly asked "why".... "Why isn't this working?" or
"Why can't we try that?" So much of the creativity at Disney comes
from people who have a playful attitude. Could the same be true for our
churches?
One more thing about the inner child. The ability to let the "inner
child" out is one of the main things that separates most people born after
1945 from most people born before 1945. Consider this response from one of the
young pastors on my Listserve: "This (the inner child comment) hits me
right where God has led me over the last 6 years since seminary. I struggle with
how to do this in the context of leadership - I know when to be serious and when
to goof, but because I have been set so free to be the kid I am and God is
creating me to be, it seems that for others it is difficult for them to accept
me as a leader. (I may be projecting my fear of failure onto them, but I don't
think so.) Are there any 'kid leaders' who would be good mentors/encouragers who
have seminars, books, videos, whatever?"
Over and over, the Disney presenters focused us on the phrase "Yes,
and...." instead of "Yes, but...." Their emphasis was on
providing an atmosphere in which teams are encouraged to expand on one another's
idea, adding a creative touch to the original idea. Idea strings (one good
thought often leads to another in the right environment) are one of the primary
benefits of teams that say "Yes, and..." instead of "Yes,
but..."
"What happens in your church when someone comes up with a new idea? What
systems do you have in place to encourage new ideas? Is your church a
permission-giving or permission-withholding environment?"
Disney demonstrates that the experience begins in the parking lot. All along the
pathway from the parking lot to the entrance, speakers played the Disney music,
helping guests get in the mood. The parking lot was immaculate. Everything
played to a theme. The landscaping was incredible.
I had my beliefs-in paying people to make mistakes, promoting staff horizontally
and letting them choose different ministries every year or so, and doing away
with job descriptions-reinforced and confirmed at the Institute. Many of the
people at Disney have had multiple jobs over long-term tenures. One of the
persons who trained us had been with Disney for twenty-five years and had held
numerous jobs including starting out driving a tram.
Why not do away with job descriptions and free people up to make mistakes from
which they can learn instead of asking them to fulfill a predescribed set of
tasks? We are discovering that Gen Xers rarely will not do the same job over and
over for years. Six months to a year is tops for most of those with talent. So
if they excel, let them have "roaming" jobs and cross-train them for
many ministries and let them flow in and out of them over time.
One of the ideas that was generated in our group discussions was the possibility
of using "touch" video walls in the church lobby. All people have to
do is touch the part of the screen that they wish to know more about and it
instantly displays the information. Of course, we must remember that if you use
high tech you must be sure to give high touch.
I walked away from my Disney experience quietly praying - "God, what will
it take for your people to care as much about sharing Jesus with
strangers?"
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